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iPraiseHim

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About iPraiseHim

  • Rank
    George
  • Birthday 05/24/1955

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  • Your relationship to the individual who died
    Husband
  • Date of Death
    February 16th, 2015
  • Name/Location of Hospice if they were involved:
    NA

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  • Your gender
    Male
  • Location (city, state)
    Chesapeake, VA
  • Interests
    God, natural health, serving others, passion for flying, Playing saxophone, Tiffany stained glass, gardening,shelties & collies, reading, smooth jazz, ...

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  1. I love your stories. They are precious memories! - Shalom (Peace)
  2. Hi George P. This grief journey is a walk through grief and healing. My beloved wife, Rose Anne, An i were married for over twenty five years. She died four and half years ago, yet I still miss her every day. I have learned to accept that this after life is what it is. I do my best to just accept life on life's terms. So much in life is out of my control. I still haven't cleaned out her clothes closet of drawers. I get to it when I get to it. Life now is just different than before. I have learned much from these wonderful souls that helped me in my most difficult time. I still have tough times but realize that they will pass. I am learning to simply move forward in life. I will never get over he. Her love and memories are embedded in my heart and soul. We are still together just not in this physical realm. Most every one else has moved on with Rose Anne. This special place is where I come to listen, share, and care for others who are going through this grief journey . Please come and share, ask questions, and learn as we are all on the same journey. Take care - George C - Shalom (Peace)
  3. Welcome back! Been wondering how you are doing. - Shalom (Peace)
  4. Kayc, Check with your telephone company on how you can either block his phone number or put a trace on him. If necessary file a police report and notify the senior site as well. You need to take steps sufficient to protect your safety and security. Friends don't act this way! Meanwhile, I will add specific and intercessory prayers for the angels to protect you - Shalom (Peace)
  5. You are beginning here and now by simply asking for help. This place is a safe haven for me because people here know, realize, and empathize with you and your story of grief, pain, and loss. There are so many emotions and feelings that come at us that it becomes difficult to sleep, eat, and even breath. Grief takes a lot of energy and it is important that you take care of yourself through this most intense and difficult time. All of the emotions you feel are real and authentic for you. We are here to listen, share, and care for you, a fellow traveler on this road through this grief, pain, and loss. Please be kind to yourself. No one is prepared for this unknown afterlife after your beloved's death. Please return often and share what you are going through, questions you may have or when you simply want to tell someone how you feel... believe us... we understand and want to help. Take care - Shalom (Peace)
  6. Welcome to this safe haven of those of us who are left behind to continue this life after the unspeakable. In my opinion, nobody truly understands the depth,pain, and chasm when your beloved dies and we are left to somehow live. For me the SHOCK and Awe of it all just completed devastated my world and shook my foundation to the core. There is no training manual or book of rules about this. After a couple of weeks I found this wonderful place that listens, understands, shares, and cares for each other. I couldn't eat, couldn't sleep and at times really had difficulty breathing. People here listened and gave me simply instructions on how to get through this moment, this hour, this day. I listened and followed some suggestions and found a place where these people truly understand and empathize. Many of us here have been awhile on this journey after... always learning, growing, and sharing with people who come visit as each of us did. Please come and visit as often as you like. Ask questions, share, lets us know how we can help you on this grief journey. - Shalom (Peace)
  7. Happy Birthday KayC. Sounds like a great time! - Shalom (Peace)
  8. Same thing when my Toyota Camry died. Rose Anne's Makeup and face prints where still there years after she died. I just couldn't wash them off. They were gone when the car was salvaged. My backup car that I bought was from my client and it was a slightly newer version of The Buick Park Ave that I helped my wife purchase. It had some comfort but Rose Anne never rode in that car. The previous owner died last year from complication of a progressive lung cancer and she was on oxygen just like Rose Anne. Memories keep piling on but they are never the same. - Shalom
  9. KayC, You are still the person that loves and cares for Arlie. Don't let anyone take that from you. My beloved pets are still on my mind and hearts and it has been many years since they died. Other people don't know what we know or feel what we feel. I make no excuses. Life is too short and too precious to let others perception of me steal my joy, love, or peace. Let them MOVE ON! ... NEXT!!! You will know when is the right to for you to get another pet. Grieve and just feel the feelings. They are a part of you and a part of us. We do not tire of hearing about Arlie. BTW... I notice no one brings up wife's name, "Rose Anne" until I do. It is my memory, my grieve, and my heart. We who are left behind have to learn how to deal with this every day. We don't move on.... We move forward... one day at a time! - Shalom (Peace)
  10. My sister called yesterday and talked for three hours. Her tone and countenance was different. About halfway through she blurted out, " I miss talking to you!" I told she could call me anytime. She is the one that is hard to reach. I agreed to meet her over at Dad's house today and it was a pleasant visit. She wanted to give me a tour of the home so I let her. She is having difficulty letting go of objects and things because they were my parents belongings accumulated for over 60 years. The suits of Dads are four sizes too small. I did get 10 gallons of paint... they are sure heavy. I need to paint my home... someday. It is getting cooler now 55 at night so the home is finally cool down to the 70 the last few days. It is 84 in the home now though at 10 pm. The AC company finally called me this week for some maintenance and looking for payment. I told them I was really unhappy with their service and they still owed me for two service visits. They now agree with me that a straight air conditioning unit instead of a heat pump would have served me better. I told them that AC is not a high priority for me now going into the fall season. Yes, it has been hot but I have saved money this year from not running AC in the whole house. I don't have the $5,000 to get one now anyway. Work is real busy again this week, so I just keep pressing forward each day. - Take care and enjoy the journey as best you can. - Shalom (Peace)
  11. True. Stress raises Cortisol which raises our Insulin level and causes us to store fat and prevents us from burning it. Oddly enough, Weight resistance training and HIIT Cardio are good stress relievers and reduces Insulin levels, builds balance and core functions. I am reading now this book about Cognitive Behavioral Therapy that is supposed to help with dealing with stress... We will see! - Shalom
  12. Your sharing reminds me of my sister. My father died three months ago and my sister was his caregiver the last 18 months in her home. She has very similar stories that she shared with me today and it gives her great comfort amidst the grief. I'm glad you and Lena are doing well. It's good to her from you. - Shalom (Peace)
  13. Congratulations! I stumbled upon Intermittent fasting two years ago and i natural fasting 1-23 hours each day. It is a great and natural way to shed excess lbs and maintain it!
  14. The eye of the Hurricane Dorian passed further east of me so there was just raining and some winds. We were spared. Electricity and internet stayed on. I'm heading out for work in a few minutes. I wanted to let my friends here know I am doing okay. KayC, stay safe and use wisdom about travel and helping your friends. Peace be with you in your travels, home, and sleep. - Shalom
  15. I am home and work has been cancelled for tomorrow. The eye of the storm appears to be veering east which is a good thing. The latest forecast for tomorrow are rain and winds up to 35 mph. I plan to hunker down and enjoy this day off. Thank you all for your good thoughts and prayers. - Shalom (Peace)
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