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Happy Belated Birthday Marty. I hope you spent your special day doing something "Special". Hugs, Dee🎂

Yes, Kay I noticed the Falls were frozen. Hard to believe but after hearing about Portland's weather it was understandable. Seems like Portland's winter weather is always worse than Tacoma's winters. Dee

Haven't signed on for a while. My vision issue makes it difficult to look at a computer screen somedays. I have peeked in and kinda kept abreast of you all trying to survive in this unusual weather. I live about 30 miles south of Seattle. Our temperatures were in the low teens with mostly sunny skies for about four days and then warmed up to the balmy 40's. This morning it is 36 degrees and raining. My sister-in-law, lives in Portland, texted me Sunday evening to say they were 7 degrees and can't get out of the driveway. Their driveway is pretty treacherous as it is in a hilly area. I spoke to my daughter yesterday, she lives in Roseburg, OR. They are enjoying beautiful sunny 50+ weather. I guess it depends on how the wind blows. Kay: Beautiful Multnomah Falls! My husband and I had stopped there one day years ago during warmer weather to see how beautiful it was. Since it was so warm, and I was too tired to take the trek up to the bridge, we said we'd come back another day. Sorrily, we never made it back, but every time I see mention of Multnomah Falls a tear runs down my face. 😢 Kevin, Marg and Kay: Do take care and hoping the weather in your area will soon be more bearable. And, Karen, you take care and enjoy the warmth. Dee

Kay, Thank you for your New Year wishes. I, also wish a Healthy Happy New Year to All on the Grief Forum. Hoping there will be no more accidents, health issues and dog bite issues in 2024 and beyond. Dee

Marg: Good choice of words! My exact feelings. Hugs to you as you wait for your surgery. Dee

Merry Christmas, George. And, a Healthy Happy New Year. Dee

Marg, Same to you and yours. Keeping you and all on the Grief Forum best wishes and wishing all a Merry Christmas and a Happy, Healthy 2024. Dee

Kay: As I'm sitting here resting my weary bones from a Christmas get-to-gether last night I came across a response from Marty regarding your awful dog attack from your neighbor's dog. I can't imagine how awful that must have been for you. What a terrible thing to happen. Please know you are in my good thoughts as you heal. What kind of dog would be so aggressive? I don't think you said Kodie was with you?? Warm hugs and somehow Have a Merry Christmas. Dee

Marg: Karen's description of surgery is pretty much as I recall. But, I do remember going into a small changing room. It was a busy place with curtains dividing others in the room. Once on the gurney it was over before I knew it probably thanks to the IV. Besides the brightness improving I don't need my glasses so much. Dee

Marg: To tell you the truth I don't remember if I changed into a hospital gown before my cataract surgery. I do remember going into a changing room and taking something off but honestly can't recall. My 82-year-old memory bank is overdrawn. I just know it was amazing how bright things were afterwards, no discomfort or pain. Keeping you in my thoughts. Dee

Karen: At least you put up a little tree.🎄 That's a Good Thing. I hope it helped brighten your Holiday Feeling. It is difficult some days when we remember what the Holidays used to be. I am sorry your dentures aren't working out for you. Hopefully within time you will get used to them. I empathize with you and your vision problems. Even though my cataract surgery was a success for me my macular degeneration in my left eye creates ongoing problems. Now my eyes are extremely sensitive to light so much, some days I have to wear sunglasses inside my house. In addition, my eyes will start tearing like I'm crying. There's no pain just annoying. I did mention it at my last eye injection appointment, but my retinal doctor didn't comment. But it gives me another reason to not want to drive anymore. My daughter said she has the same problem and the optometrist told her she had "dry eyes". No, Karen we will never stop counting. It's 8 lonely years without my Love. Merry Christmas Karen to you and your family, and a "Healthy 2024". Warmly, Dee

Marg: I agree with you on "not remembering some things". I have to push some things out of my memory, or I find myself drowning in sadness. I envy your ability of being able to keep on going and helping your sister and family. The abundance of useless mail is a real pain. I use the online post office service, "Informed Delivery" that scans what is put in my mailbox. Unfortunately, my mailbox is not just outside my front door but down a gravel road. I don't bother emptying mailbox unless I see something of importance is in the box. I might not empty the box for a week or more. It's usually just full of junk mail. ☹️ I do hope you and your family have a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year, Marg. Warm Hugs, Dee

Thank you Kay for your Christmas Wishes. It's good to see you are finally getting over Iris's "gift". Two weeks is so long and sorry you had to forego your Holiday Gatherings. Hoping you can soon be back to feeling as good as you always do, and you, Kodie and Panther will have a Merry Christmas. So far, I haven't decorated at all this year. I did get a few Christmas cards mailed out and ordered a few gifts online. Grandkids will get cash so they can do their own shopping. Being from the South I love fruitcake for Christmas. My son in law and l are the only ones who like fruitcake so ordered him one and bought myself a small box of "fruitcake petites". My son came over yesterday and we made homemade ChexMix, his request. His childhood Christmas memories are so evident the older he gets. He plans to make his Dad's recipe for "Tom and Jerry's" on Christmas Eve. I dug out the recipe and seeing his Dad's handwriting on that recipe card brought tears. I don't know if that pain will ever go away.🥲 Dee

Marg: Yes, I am one of those that said cataract surgery was a good thing for me. But I also understand your concern about any kind of surgery. Fortunately, I haven't experienced what you have had to go through with radiation treatments. (Knock on Wood!) I shy away from doctors and instead choose to take a pill for my achy knees. I've heard others say knee surgery doesn't always work so don't want to take the chance. I go to my annual "well check" appointment that lasts 15 minutes and allows my primary care doctor to write my medications. I think about what Gwen went through after her surgeries. We each have to do what is best for ourselves. I loved your Grinch decoration and good to hear he's still there. 😁 Dee

kay: So sorry to read your friend Jack is in hospital. His injuries will surely take some time to heal. Hopefully his knowing all his good neighbors are helping out as he recovers will help with a speedy recovery. Your Thanksgiving sounded fun. Glad you fit right in. I have no doubt you can fit in anywhere. 😄 Your daughter's boyfriend sounds like a special person. Your sweet Kodie escaped the dreaded cone! I can imagine that sweet face showing his joy. Makes me smile. I can imagine your disappointment as you recover from whatever it was Iris shared with you. Your being the "Energizer Bunny" type personality, missing out on the Christmas activities at your Church can't be easy for you. Hugs, Dee