I just received Final Gifts from Amazon.com and read about half of it today. It was recommended by one of my wife Janet's Hospice nurses shortly before she died. If you are not familiar with this book, it is about "Nearing Death Awareness" and includes many short case studies of patients' experiences as death approaches. One chapter deals with dying persons who see people/beings/things not visible to others in the room. This topic fascinates me because as I was with Janet around the clock during her final weeks, I had several opportunities to observe this very phenomenon. Here are some of the things I remember. The first unusual event occurred one morning about 7 weeks before her death. She was asleep and I went in to our bedroom to check on her. My footsteps awakened her and I asked, "How are you this morning, sweetie?" She looked at me, smiled, and said, "You humans are funny." I asked her what she meant by that, but she just smiled and had nothing else to say about it. I wondered to myself at the time if she might have been "crossing over." The other things happened in the last week or so of her life. One afternoon I was sitting on the bed talking with her when suddenly her eyes grew wide and she stared past me. "What is it?" I asked. She replied, "Hannibal Lechter." I asked "What about Hannibal Lechter?" and she said "He's eating fava beans." I have no idea what was going on there. There were many times when she stared wide-eyed at someone/something and I would ask what she was seeing, but she would never say. She never looked frightened, but rather full of wonder. A couple of days before she died Janet suddenly looked surprised and asked "When did they get here?" She and I were the only people in the room. She wouldn't who "they" were, but I suspect she may have been seeing angels. Janet believed that angels are in the world around us and protect us. She believed that she and a friend were saved from death by angels during a very bad car wreck years ago. She saw/felt the presence of two figures in the back seat of the car that shielded her and her passenger from harm. So, did any of you have similar experiences when your spouses neared death? I'd love to hear your stories and insights. Thanks, Mike