hello123 Posted February 4, 2011 Report Share Posted February 4, 2011 I posted this on the end of my other one but its just getting to me so much now!! A friend of mine who broke off contact with me after my dad because I wasnt "there for her" but we made up now because she was a good friend. Her mum had cancer a few years ago and has now made a full recovery although I try and never talk about my situation or how I feel when I mention it she dismisses it and equates it to her situation but her mum is alive and well. I dunno what to do!!! It's driving me mad, i've tried saying but how can I say YOU ARE LUCKY BECAUSE YOUR MUM IS ALIVE AND NOT DEAD in a nice way?! She keeps saying "dont u think I know how you feel" and "trust me people dont even ask how my mum is now" comparing it to how people dont ask how we are!! But thats because her mum is alive! Im not even insensitive I always ask but it's getting too much when she always acts like my situation is no worse than mine. what do i do??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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