teny Posted November 2, 2012 Report Share Posted November 2, 2012 hellow my far away friends .remember me? I dont post but I do read and Im so sorry for all of you that had to be here.Today is 6 years for me grief has changed face but still here.I do miss him and my life we had together.I feel like a differend person and I wonder if he would love the new me the same.Some days the waves of grief are so hard like starting all over again then hope comes in the face of my litle grand daughter and I try to be present to life.Situation here in Greece is so hard so many people are suffering being homeles and without jobs and food so grief and disapointment are all over.The 6 years of grief are long and hard but when you have no hope of abetter future at least for your children it gets even harder.Wish you all find hope and be strong in that road of tears.Love from faraway.Teny Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MartyT Posted November 2, 2012 Report Share Posted November 2, 2012 Of course we remember you, dear Teny, our "friend from far away" ~ and you will always be an important part of us ~ You are part of what makes this group so special, and you are not forgotten. From our hearts to yours, from this land to your land, we send you love and light and blessings ♥ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mfh Posted November 2, 2012 Report Share Posted November 2, 2012 Hi Teny, It is always good to see someone return here and update us. I do understand the waves coming in as well as the transformation. It has been 2.5 years since my husband died and I am at a place now where I get hit by a tsunami of grief but handle it better...most of the time. The situation in Greece is so sad and I can see how being surrounded by struggling people who are grieving home loss and job loss. Grief piled on top of grief. Where does one turn? I will keep you all in my heart and thoughts as I move forward on this journey myself. Peace, Mary Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marsha Posted November 2, 2012 Report Share Posted November 2, 2012 "I try to be present to life"...oh, yes, Teny, I get it. It's good to hear from you. Hugs - Marsha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kayc Posted November 3, 2012 Report Share Posted November 3, 2012 Teny, It is good to hear from you (you too, Marsha). I always think of you whenever I hear news of Greece, and pray for you and your country. Your country has been going through some hard places, ours has too although we're a step behind you on the devastation. Some places are harder hit than others. We have high unemployment here and homelessness abounds. I know what you mean about not having hope, at least with our country/politics. I wish I'd been on line earlier...six years, it hardly seems possible, does it? I am sure your Yani would love the person you are today, maybe all the more for what you have survived. It takes great courage to face what we have head on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
teny Posted November 3, 2012 Author Report Share Posted November 3, 2012 thank you my friends its good to know that you remember me.This site and all of you have been a great help when I was so desperat.I think for me now the word is axeptance.a day comes when you stop strugling and wait for life to show the way. Teny Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnnC Posted November 3, 2012 Report Share Posted November 3, 2012 Of course I remember you, teny, from faraway Greece. Six years ago I found this site as I mourned the death of my ex husband. Now I am back after the sudden death of my brother in a car accident in August. We never stop missing them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kayc Posted November 4, 2012 Report Share Posted November 4, 2012 thank you my friends its good to know that you remember me.This site and all of you have been a great help when I was so desperat.I think for me now the word is axeptance.a day comes when you stop strugling and wait for life to show the way. Teny You are right, Teny. That's what I've learned too. I try not to look too far ahead, make tentative plans, but know things can change. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest babylady Posted November 5, 2012 Report Share Posted November 5, 2012 nice to meet you teny. hugs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ANC1117 Posted November 5, 2012 Report Share Posted November 5, 2012 It is good to here that people return and keep in touch. My prayers go out to all in Greece. It is a pleasure to meet you here. Anthony Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LarrysGirl Posted November 12, 2012 Report Share Posted November 12, 2012 Oh Teny I'm sorry I missed your post! I hope you will see my reply, I think of you often and hoping that you were alright. I remember when you came here to our group, the pain and the sorrow you expressed. For me, in a few short days it will be 7 years. My heart still sinks when I realize how much time has past yet my love for him is still alive in my heart. I know that our grieving will always be a part of our lives and so will the love we have for the one's we have lost. I'm so sorry for your country, there is suffering in our country also. Please stay in touch, we miss you, Love Deborah Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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