lyn Posted January 14, 2008 Report Share Posted January 14, 2008 I still feel very angry today. I came home from work very tired and just wanted to sleep and I found my older brother getting drunk and making a lot of noise and disturbance on us and with the neighbors. We had a fight over it. It seems the past few days, my patience is being stretched a lot, and I just explode today. Oh, it feels good to talk about it, but I am still angry though. I wonder if I did the right thing confronting him about it... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lorikelly Posted January 14, 2008 Report Share Posted January 14, 2008 Sometimes we just have to let it out. i know for the longest time i felt so angry and had no patience. this bothered me alot but soon it did start to lessen and i look at things differently. lori Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shell Posted January 15, 2008 Report Share Posted January 15, 2008 You did the right thing confronting him...you shouldn't have to put up with such inconsiderate behavior! Funny thing about grief, it makes you not want to put up with BS anymore! Hugs,Shell Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DoubleJo Posted January 15, 2008 Report Share Posted January 15, 2008 Lyn: You have no need to question yourself about your actions. You responded to HIS actions which were wrong, frustrating and imposed upon you.Everyone has the right to be angry. Hopefully we get that way over something justified. Anger tells us several things, among them something here is not right; something is pushing against me making me feel the need to respond to protect myself. You count, Lyn. No one has to accept behaviour from another that is deliberately done that directly effects you. The blame lies with the doer, not the receiver in this case. This is why anger exists. It can prompt us to take necessary actions: it can open our eyes to realities we might choose to avoid; it helps us by venting out frustrations and fear. It sounds that without you there is no him. Take care of yourself. Always my concern- DoubleJo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lyn Posted January 16, 2008 Author Report Share Posted January 16, 2008 Thank you my friends. I feel much better now. He said sorry to me the day after and I told him not to do it again. I seldom get angry and as much as possible I keep myself calm and walk out of the situation whenever I can. But sometimes some instances prompt me to stand up for what I think is right.. Shell, what is BS? Im lost here.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WendyJ Posted January 16, 2008 Report Share Posted January 16, 2008 Good for you Lyn sticking up for yourself ! I think what Shell means is Bull.... Here is Jersey we say BS too.Hugs,Wendy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lyn Posted January 16, 2008 Author Report Share Posted January 16, 2008 lol...now i know. thanks wendy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shell Posted January 16, 2008 Report Share Posted January 16, 2008 HAHAHAHA....sorry guys!!!!! Thanks Wendy!Hugs,Shell Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lyn Posted January 16, 2008 Author Report Share Posted January 16, 2008 hey Shell..im blushing here. . haha..at least I gave you a good laugh last night. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shell Posted January 17, 2008 Report Share Posted January 17, 2008 Yes, you did...thanks! I'll try to behave myself. I'm afraid I swear too much, a habit I believe I picked up because most of my best friends growing up were guys! Also, I grew up during the hippie era....I don't have a chance...hahahaha!Hugs,Shell Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WendyJ Posted January 17, 2008 Report Share Posted January 17, 2008 Hey Shell,I am right there with you since I knew what you meant by BS ! Between working at a Autobody Collision Shop and a Motorcycle shop I work with all guys too ! We are bad girls I guess ! LOLHugs,Wendy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shell Posted January 18, 2008 Report Share Posted January 18, 2008 Wendy,I'm glad someone understands my "theory"! Well, the world needs "bad" girls too, huh? Hugs,Shell Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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