Guest moparlicious Posted May 21, 2008 Report Share Posted May 21, 2008 Hey all,Thank you to everyone who responded to "Where do I fit In?" I received alot of helpful advice and many listening ears. Yesterday was 9 months my beloved Dan has left this earth and went to Heaven, for he could not fight the cancer anymore. It is hard to comprehend I would be a widow at 40 years old and have 3 children to raise alone, plus a child that is not mine or Dans, no relation (long story, I have shared with this before)I am asking everyone here, to please pray for my sister in law. She has lymphoma and is currently hospitalized. She is participating in a clinical trial and has began chemotherapy last week, she has done 4 days of it and it has made her terribly sick, for she could not eat or drink, and is on her 2nd blood transfusion. She cannot walk right now for some reason her legs do not want to work. She is at the same hospital my husband was(the 17x, he was hospitalized in a period of 6 months)I went yesterday to visit and we both burst in tears. I saw many nurses and aides who took care of my husband and it was a very hard day.Same oncologist as my husband is making rounds, my sister in laws oncologist is in the same office. I need many prayers and would like to try to get as many people as possible. She is a inspiration to me and it means alot for all your prayers!!!! Bless you all! Love, Kim Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
STARKISS Posted May 21, 2008 Report Share Posted May 21, 2008 Hi KimIt must be really hard on you to see her in such pain...It must be really hard to get yourself to go and visit her thinking that it was the same place you lost your beloved husband.... I will definitely keep both of you in my prayers... Shelley Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kayc Posted May 21, 2008 Report Share Posted May 21, 2008 Oh Kim, we will definitely pray for you...and your sister in law, and her child, this is very hard. I know how hard it is to go back to the hospital...it gets better eventually with each subsequent visit but it takes time.You're an amazing woman! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
leeann Posted May 21, 2008 Report Share Posted May 21, 2008 KimCertainly you have my prayers for her (and for yourself too).May she be feeling much better real soon.And may this clinical trial be successful!leeann Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackietnd1 Posted May 21, 2008 Report Share Posted May 21, 2008 Hi Kim, I will be praying for you and your family. I also praythe clinical trail works for your sister-in-law.Keep the FaithLove you AllJackie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest moparlicious Posted May 22, 2008 Report Share Posted May 22, 2008 Thank you all, I am going tonight to visit her again, get the MRI results. The hospital is not the same one my husband passed away at, he actually passed away at a inpatient unit Hospice of The Valley, but he was hospitalized many times at this hospital, nevertheless it is so hard.Please continue to pray and I will keep you posted. Love to all, Kim Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest moparlicious Posted May 24, 2008 Report Share Posted May 24, 2008 Hello again,Well really have not found out much but the chemotherapy may have given her two strokes, she is walking now and ate some. Seems the only thing she can eat is fruit, I sent her a lovely fruit bouquet, all fruit was shaped as flowers and some covered in chocolate. Hope is comes home soon and we hear some answers. I really need some peace and comfort. With her sick and in the hospital and Memorial Day weekend here and missing Dan so much the tears have been on a steady flow today!!!! Keep praying for us please and I am going to keep the hope and faith for its all I can do today. Love, Kim Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kayc Posted May 27, 2008 Report Share Posted May 27, 2008 Kim, My prayers are with you both...I pray God will give you strength and wisdom for what is needed for the day.Love,KayC Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest moparlicious Posted May 29, 2008 Report Share Posted May 29, 2008 Thank you all but thank you so much KayC, with all the things you are going through, you still remain a true and devoted friend to many of here. You are a real inspiration and I see what they mean by angels will be here on earth, you may not know where or how, but I KNOW I FOUND HER. My sister in law is still in the hospital and things keep going from bad to worse, this is really tearing my heart apart. She is so out of it and now she has a fever. I cry and cry so much these days for I can't shake the feeling of despair. I do pray and try to remain positive, but I get a feeling she is not going to be able to beat this and will be joining our Heavenly Father,and her beloved brother(my husband) I try to fight off these feelings and wish so bad I did not feel them. I don't want to. Life is such a mystery. God bless you all. Kim Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MartyT Posted May 29, 2008 Report Share Posted May 29, 2008 Oh Kim ~I'm so very sorry to know that you're dealing with all of this. Please know that you are in my heart. There simply are no words . . . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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