ADH Posted October 25, 2014 Report Share Posted October 25, 2014 My husband died in April this year. It has been so incredibly difficult. I have read about guilt in some of the other posts. I am not sure why this is so profound six months later, but I feel guilty for the things I did not do, the things I said, the times I lost my patience, out of total frustration with the doctors, caregivers, the insurance companies, etc. I feel like I have been through a war. Does anyone have any advice on dealing with guilt and dealing with the trauma of everything leading up to that as well? We also lost our kitty of fourteen years. She died six days before my husband after being ill. I did not have any family or support system when he was ill. His children refused to help. I think the reality of him passing and the trauma of his illness is becoming a reality. After such a huge effort on his part and mine, he still died. His family and friends have moved on....I am stuck. Thank you, A Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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