Hi! I'm really sorry for your loss. My husband was on Social Security disability before he got sick. I too know the feeling when you receive the letter from Social Security that reads marriage ended in death. It is really hard words to hear. It has only been 4 months for me and I still consider myself married. I know that I am not but I am not ready to accept it. I have been told that things will get better. I try to take one day at a time. Some are good but most are bad. I do journal every night and that ends my day on a high note. I tell my husband about my day and how much I love and miss him. It is really a good feeling.
I am new to this site but I know I have found people that will help me thru this because they really understand.
My thought and prayers are with you!
Kat