I thank all of you. I feel like I'm slowly, but surely losing my mind.....I lost my brother in July, my beloved Mom in February.....and I grieved for them, I still do. But as painful as those losses were/are.....it is NOTHING compared to losing my Connor . We truly had a wonderful love story.....the kind you think only happens in fiction....having him in my life, I was able to withstand the losses of my brother and mom because I had Connor with me, caring for me, giving me unconditional love & support.....he was just that kind of person. He'd lost his mum, dad, and a brother while we were together, and I know I gave him the same support & love.....while we grieved our losses, we comforted one another and knew that because of our strong love and bond, that we could withstand anything, together. The losses spurred us on to never take a moment for granted, we spent nearly all of our days together, and I was always surprising him with mini getaways to places I knew he would enjoy......we especially loved going to the ocean, it was almost an obsession with him. "I need vitamin sea" he'd always exclaim! We'd gotten our passports for our last trip to the Bahamas....costly, but as they are good for 10 years, we planned to get our money's worth and travel when we could afford to,....he'd traveled extensively while in the Navy, and hoped to return, with me, to show me the countries he loved the most. All of my dreams/hopes/wishes....they are dead,....I'm just a shell. I've not always had a easy life...but was always the "tough, strong" one who could take anything life threw at me.....but now? I'm having a hard time even caring if I shower, brush my teeth or hair....sounds gross but I just don't care and it seems too much of an effort. I know that can't be normal....maybe I AM going insane?