Hard To Accept

[Mrs. B]

I just posted yesterday first time about losing my spouse and going back to see my daugther and soninlaw and grand baby. I was scared to go at first thinking something would happen to someone i loved like it did the last time. (March )but got to thinking it would happen if i was there or here. Well now i find out my childrens granny passes away and they are are coming home for the funeral. I am to go next wed. I feel so sad for them both . They feel bad becasue the were making plans to come visit her. My daughter never got to come home for my spouses funeral cause the babe was just three weeks old and no passport or shots. This year really is turning crappy. I feel i just start feeling better then bang something else comes at me and my family. The funeral will be so hard for us all becasue everthing is still to fresh. I know granny was 89 but it still is hard to except.

[kayc]

Mrs. B,

I am sorry to learn of this latest revelation, but I pray you get through it and can be there for your kids...that's what it's about, being there for each other. Maybe with all this bad behind you, you are due for some good, we can always hope!

Kay

[valley]

Mrs. B.

Sorry that you have to go through another loss again so soon. It sounds like you have a very loving family that can come together to offer mutual support. I send you a big hug and hope that all of you can make it through the funeral. side by side.

Take care,

VAlley

[Boo Mayhew]

Mrs B, welcome to the Board ... I am sorry for you and your family having to cope with two bereavements - and I hope that you can give each other comfort ... please let us know how you are.

[Mrs. B]

Thank you so much. I got to see my daughter and son in law and grand baby today. I hugged him and squeezed him and kissed him. My kids to got kisses and hug. He is so big since i seen him in March. lol. My kids dad and wife were kind enough to ask me to come to their home for supper. The next couple of days will be hard on all. My daughter hasn't even been to my spouses grave yet and she said she will find these few days so hard. A double whammy for her. My son and his wife gave us good news today. They are expecting. Hopefully the baby will be ok because in Jan. when i was in the hospital she had a miscarriage. So maybe this year is looking up.

[Korina]

Mrs. B:

I am new to the forum, as well, and have found a lot of comfort here. Keep posting, and I hope your year is looking up, as well.

Korina

[kayc]

Mrs. B,

I hope too that the baby will be okay, please keep us abreast of it's progress. It helps so much to have something positive to look forward to!

[emptyinside]

When it rains, it pours. Hoping for lots of upturns in the future.

[Mrs. B]

Well we got through the funeral. Was very hard even thought granny was 89 it still was hard on my kids. Saturday they came to visit and it was good to have them here. We went out to the cemetary and she was so sad cause she said mom im so sorry i couldnt be here for you . But i said you did what you could and got me home. With the baby being new and no passport or shots i knew if was impossible for her. She said the she had enough of cememtaries and funerals for the year and was ready to go home. They left on sunday and i will be flying out on wednesday morning. I am excited. I also go news that i am executor so i can get all that stuff started and will have a little relief on my vacation. I still have this knott in the pitt of my stomach and a weight on my chest. My step daughter who i raised since she was 31/2 is now sick and i have to try to make sure she is ok cause her real mom dosent care and i told her i would always be there for her. She has lost 20 lbs since her dad died and is a mere 105 lbs. Trying to get dr to have here see a specialist and it is hard. We were in emerge on friday for 5 hours and they said that she probably has irritable bowel syndrome. Her father died from an inflammed bowel so it scares us. I wish she would move back home to but she moved in with her boyfriend and father. enough rambling tonight i have to go pack and make a list so i dont forget anything. My siutcase has mostly stuff for the baby. I will be able to fit some clothes in though lol....

[Boo Mayhew]

have a good trip Mrs B and enjoy the company of your family. I hope your stepdaughter is alright ... IBS is very painful and affects your entire life.

x

QUOTE (Mrs. B @ Aug 4 2009, 12:49 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

Well we got through the funeral. Was very hard even thought granny was 89 it still was hard on my kids. Saturday they came to visit and it was good to have them here. We went out to the cemetary and she was so sad cause she said mom im so sorry i couldnt be here for you . But i said you did what you could and got me home. With the baby being new and no passport or shots i knew if was impossible for her. She said the she had enough of cememtaries and funerals for the year and was ready to go home. They left on sunday and i will be flying out on wednesday morning. I am excited. I also go news that i am executor so i can get all that stuff started and will have a little relief on my vacation. I still have this knott in the pitt of my stomach and a weight on my chest. My step daughter who i raised since she was 31/2 is now sick and i have to try to make sure she is ok cause her real mom dosent care and i told her i would always be there for her. She has lost 20 lbs since her dad died and is a mere 105 lbs. Trying to get dr to have here see a specialist and it is hard. We were in emerge on friday for 5 hours and they said that she probably has irritable bowel syndrome. Her father died from an inflammed bowel so it scares us. I wish she would move back home to but she moved in with her boyfriend and father. enough rambling tonight i have to go pack and make a list so i dont forget anything. My siutcase has mostly stuff for the baby. I will be able to fit some clothes in though lol....