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Blondie just checking in to see how you are doing. Still praying for you all!! Hope you can feel my hugs!! sunshine

Hi Den my nameis sunshine. iI lost my Mom in September 2010. Wow! Sounds like it's been a heck of a year. To many loses and no time for grieving. I'm so sorry for your loss!! My Mom had lung cancer and I took care of her for 2 years. I also was power of attorney for her. Sounds like you have really been struggling! I'm here to listen if you want to talk! I will s...

Hello Rabbit my name is sunshine. Welcome!! If you would like to talk write me back. You came to the right place to get support. Hope to hear from you! May the Lord give you strength!!!

Hi I understand how you feel! I lost my Dad 23 years ago and I still get choked up looking at pictures and thinking about the times we shared as Father and Daughter. 6 months ago I lost my Mom. She was my best friend!! It still maybe early yet but try writing down what your feeling or special memories. You can share here or keep it to yourself. May the Lord give you strength!...

Hello lostinthewoods! I'm sunshine. Welcome!! I'm here because I lost my Mother to lung cancer sept. 2010. I hope you can find some comfort here. Write me if you need to talk. Feel the hugs!!!

Bondie how are you doing? I've been thinking of you and your Daughter. It must be so hard watching your beautiful Daughter slowly slipping away. I pray for both of you daily!! I have 1 Daughter and just can't imagine what your going through! I know you come here to cry out! I am listening!! I'm sure you ask yourself why? Why my baby!! It is in Gods ha...

Its me again! My siblings some of them werent there when they were sick. I really don't expect them to be there for me. I have brother that lives less than 5 minutes from me and he has had no contact with me. Before or after Mom's death. I do understand that lonely feeling! I know I did everything right!! Just don't know what his problem is. So i'm sending you hu...

Hi Aquarius7. I too have trouble sleeping at night. I lost my Mom sept. 2010. I was her primary caregiver for 2 years. I think I just slept when she did. I have yet to get back to a normal sleeping pattern. I think about her always. We were very close!!! Lost my Dad it will be 24 years in june. Was caregiver for him as well. My siblings had different relationships with them. They ar...

Hi DVLocker! I'm sorry for your loss! I didn't suffer the loss as you, but I'm having some of the same problems. I lost my Mom after caring for her for 2 years. She was my best friend! I'm sure you know that feeling. I find my self being lost among the living. Itfeels like i've forgotten how to live. You get so consumed with caring for your loved one!!...

Hi backtolife! I'm sunshine. Glad you could join us. Lost Mom sept 2010. Hope maybe we could be friends!

Hi keyboardplayer! You know I lost my Dad 23 tears ago so the only thing I have with his voice on it is the Cassettes when we went to I can cope groups. My sister taped all the sessions we attended. Back then they were just ciming out with video cameras that had sound. But mostly home movies. No sound just video. When my Mom passed away we have her on video alot so when I miss her I watch. ...

Hi it's sunshine! I see you have had a serious loss. Do you want to talk about it? I don't know what I can do or say to help you, I'm a good listener!!! Hugs and prayers!!!

Thank you for giving another perspective on my brothers behaior. I keep telling myself that he is an adult. He made conscious decisions. He and only he has to live with his decisions. It is ashame that he missed out on those 2 years to be with her. It seems like he has totally disconected from the family. I guess its his loss when he choses not being active with his siblings. Thanks and God Ble...

Kavish thank you for you response about crying. It was much appreciated!!! write anytime! God Bless!!!

Welcome! I lost my MOm september 2010. Still have trouble coping. If you would like to talk I'm here for you. Letting go is the hardest! Write me and we can share.

Hi Reno, Im sunshine. I'm hear to welcome you! I'm new to this sight as you. I lost my Mom september 2010. Obviously you have had a loss also. If you would like to share. Just start typing. I'm a good listener. I found it's better to talk to total strangers. They look at your situation from a different perspective. Know we all experienced a loss. Hope to talk to you soon. I...

I'm sorry that your feeling this way! Wo are you angery at Him or God for turning your life upside down. I can't amagin lossing my soul mate! Just remember our life is in Gods hands and we don't always have any control over that. Know that he is with you everyday and he would want you to move on with your life. He wants you to be happy again! We can't waste the time ...

LIKE WHAT DID YOU AND YOUR dAD LIKE TO DO TOGETHER? Or maybe you could tell me a special story about him. My Favorite memory of my Dad is when he came home from work and suprised my brother and I with alittle puppy! Or when he took the time to teach me how to fish. He also taught me to drive after having a heart attack!!! Oh he was so patient with me!! I was afraid he wo...

Hey Daughter2010! My Dad als died in hospital. I know it just seems like we have something to smile about and bam there it is another person you care about is sick. I know when you walked into the hospital you start having flashbacks. It is such a difficult time!! No one knows how you feel unless you have experienced this themselves. Maybe if we could talk about some of the good thi...

Hi pattysmooth how you doing? I've been having a really hafd time get out and doing anything. I'm going to stay with my sister for a few days. Hoping this will help! My husband is getting frustrated with me! I really don't know why I'm feeling like this! Any suggestions would be appreciated. How close were you to your Mom? Do you have siblings? I want to find easier ...

HI Amy Wamy! I'm sunshine I to have not been able to cry. I lost my Mom in september 2010! I have yet to cry! You are young and you probably have alot of socializing you do. I don't think that you forgot her you have just adjusted your life without your Mom. I don't think that you ever stop thinking of them ,it's just not the top center focus in your life! I'...

When we lose a parent I think we all second guess ourselves. You have to remember we don't decide wether we live or die. Your Dad was sick, he had a disease that there is no cure for. He has been blessed by the presance of God!!! I lost my Mom to cancer and my Dad. I was a caregiver to both. After watching them struggle through life I truly believe it was a blessing! Take 1 ...

Hello! My name is sunshine. I'm so sorry to hear of your recent loss! I lost my Mom sept. 2010. It's ok to cry, and miss her! It's all still fresh give yourself time! If you would like to chat, I would love to listen! I can share my experience with you if you would like? Hopefully have some positive things to tell you as you go through your grieving process. Hugs...

How are you doing today? I too was the caregiver and I find it strange that I don't cry more. I guess you as a caregiver spend most of our time with them. We have more time to talk and accept what is to come. My Dad taught me alot af things, one was adversity was part of life. We all have different relationships with our Dads. It sounds like you were very close!!! 23 years later...

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