kimi Posted August 18, 2009 Report Share Posted August 18, 2009 I miss David so much and todays a hard day! WE would of went out for steaks and shrimp or he would of cooked them for me,He made the best ribeye steaks.Take care everyone and God be with you-kim Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
moparlicious Posted August 18, 2009 Report Share Posted August 18, 2009 Kimi,I know these firsts are really hard on you. Still grill those steaks and shrimp and invite a friend over, I am sure they would love to be with you on this extremely diffucult and hard day. Thinking of you and sending you love and comfort. Love, Kim Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
teny Posted August 18, 2009 Report Share Posted August 18, 2009 Thinking of you from far away .Love TENY Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boo Mayhew Posted August 18, 2009 Report Share Posted August 18, 2009 KimiI really hope that you are not alone today and I know that it will be extremely tough on you.I actually managed to sleep through our wedding anniversary ... yes, for a solid 24 hours, so that worked for me.Do whatever you need to do today to get through it ... if you do nothing other than cry, that's ok too. It's at times like these, that I wish we all lived in the same area so that we could all meet up and raise our glasses with you and give you lots of hugs when you need them most.As Kim said, the "firsts" ARE hard ... as are any anniversary dates ... and of course your wedding anniversary is so special to you both as a couple, that it will make it very painful for you.Marty has written a really good article on how to commemorate/celebrate anniversaries and special dates. Here is the link:http://www.selfhealingexpressions.com/grie...tines_day.shtmlI really like the idea about the balloons and was going to do that, but as I slept for the whole day I didn't.HUGSxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
moparlicious Posted August 18, 2009 Report Share Posted August 18, 2009 Kimi,I lit a candle for you on the candle site here check it out, under my initails, KP, hope your day is ok,your not alone, Love, Kim Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MartyT Posted August 18, 2009 Report Share Posted August 18, 2009 Dear Ones, please see my note about Lighting a Candle Online, here: http://hovforum.ipbhost.com/index.php?s=&a...ost&p=32920 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Korina Posted August 18, 2009 Report Share Posted August 18, 2009 Kimi:Do whatever it takes to get you through the day. Our 10th Anniversary was last month, and I sought out supportive friends. I also bought Scott an anniversary card (which has since gone into my Heartbreak drawer), and bought us each one of my wedding flowers, and took pictures. I am getting a pewter clock inscribed next month when I visit my sister in law and brother in law who own a jewelry store. I felt Scott with me, helping me through the day. (not to mention a long, tearful post on this forum was a theraputic outlet)I am going to light a candle for you right now and will be thinking of you on this day!Korina Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kayc Posted August 18, 2009 Report Share Posted August 18, 2009 Kimi,I am hoping and praying you have a surprisingly good day today...that good memories will comfort you rather than bringing you so much pain with their loss. I know the pain is great, yet I'm so thankful I had love in my life rather than just never knowing... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fredzgirl Posted August 18, 2009 Report Share Posted August 18, 2009 I haven't hit that first yet but I'm sure it's a very difficult time. Feel the love of this group around you. As I've come to find out, this is where you find the people who really know how you are feeling. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
moparlicious Posted August 18, 2009 Report Share Posted August 18, 2009 ok I light the candle in the right group now, thanks Marty!!!!!!!!! I put a personal message to you Kimi. With love, Kim Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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