melina Posted September 14, 2010 Report Share Posted September 14, 2010 It seems that every third day I have my sobbing day. It's two-thirty in the afternoon and I haven't been able to stop since getting up at ten. I'm not sure if it's certain things that set it off, or if I just have to pour out my grief all in one go every so often. The sobbing is so hard my stomach muscles are starting to hurt. Today I think it's the guilt again - feeling I should have appreciated my husband more. And the post-trauma - I think - that I didn't realize he was dying until just hours before his death. My sister-in-law says that I should just stop thinking about it. She's not religious and says that he's gone now and feels nothing. She says it's like not being born. This doesn't comfort me at all. Melina Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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