Texyman Posted August 3, 2014 Report Share Posted August 3, 2014 After one and half years happy time with my girlfriend, she suddenly lost 2 boys by traffic accident. Actually, she is single mother who has 3 sons and a daughter. Problem is that since then, she did not contact me at all, actually, the accident was informed me by her mother when I sent text saying how are you doing ? I have been sad and thinking as boyfriend, how I can support her and what kind of things should I offer ? I called and texted to my girlfriend and ask her where she is so that I can be with her ASAP. But her mother respond me on her telephone that we are devastated, numb empty so after some times passed your accompany would be more meaningful to her. And at that moment, her mother promised that as soon as date is fixed, she will ask me to participate the burial, however it was not happened. I’m overwhelmed by facing the fact that I cannot hug her, I cannot give my shoulder to her and I have no contact from her. It seems she does not need my support. She lost boys, love of her lives and I am losing my girlfriend, love of my lives. What should I do ? should I wait and keep silent until some times passed according to her mother's advice? ? Or should I come to her as soon as possible although she is refusing ?? Any advices are appreciate. 3 weeks passed since the accident. I still send some letters to her however no reply, sometimes I send text to her mother to know how she is and so on, every time, she kindly reply to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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