Mrcelloboy Posted January 16, 2008 Report Share Posted January 16, 2008 Hello my friends.I've shared with you in the past regarding a new relationship I began this past August, after losing my partner of 10 years on 11/10/06.Things seemed to be going pretty well with Melanie, but recently I began having doubts that I really "love" her. I just don't experience the depth that I felt with Kathy and have not been able to say "I love you" to Melanie since this realization. I really want this new relationship to succeed but my sharing this with her has crushed her. She's been head-over-heels about me since we met, and now feels that there's little hope of it working out. She feels that many actions of mine suggest that I'm pulling away.I really want this to work and still hold out hope that we can get through this somehow and succeed together.We'd talked a bit, a few months back, about how we might be able to blend our households. She has a 16 yr, old. I have an 18 yr. old and my 13 yr. old, who's lived with his mom for most of his life may be coming to live with me. I live in a 2 br. home. Now just thinking about housing on my 2nd son is a whole new challenge. Mel has ideas but I start to feel overwhelmed pretty fast and wonder if I'll be able to hadle all of this.Any thoughts?Thank you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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