LostmyHoney Posted December 2, 2010 Report Share Posted December 2, 2010 Today marks 3 mo. and it's also 13 weeks. My Honey told me I was the only person that ever brought him flowers, and he loved it. Today I decided to bring him some flowers, and that I will continue to bring them on the 2nd of every mo. A new tradition. It felt good to bring them into the house and say "Honey I brought you some flowers, I hope you like them." Today was the first Thursday that I did not have a total melt down, I hope it continues. Rachel Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
susavi Posted December 2, 2010 Report Share Posted December 2, 2010 My husband so loved to have fresh flowers in the house and now after 4 months today I bring home a bunch of fresh flowers every week and I get one of those cards where they sell the flowers and send him a message. Every time I bring the fresh flowers in the house I hear him say oh those are different or I love you too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chrissie Posted December 2, 2010 Report Share Posted December 2, 2010 Rachel, What a beautiful idea. My husband also liked fresh flowers, so I have a vase next to where I have his ashes and I bring him flowers. Whenever I brought flowers home, he would laugh and comment on the beautiful flowers he gave me. Chris Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kayc Posted December 3, 2010 Report Share Posted December 3, 2010 What a great idea! And congrats (on the no meltdown)! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LostmyHoney Posted December 4, 2010 Author Report Share Posted December 4, 2010 Thank you for responding, I too hear my Honey welcoming me home or just to say he loves me ext. even to remind me to take my vitamins. I miss him ! Rachel Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sunstreet Posted December 6, 2010 Report Share Posted December 6, 2010 What a wonderful idea! What a wonderful tribute and testament to the love you two shared. Thank you for sharing it with us. Courage, Carol Ann Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suzzer Posted December 12, 2010 Report Share Posted December 12, 2010 Thats a great Idea. Thanks so much for sharing. I have had such lows and her Birthday is next week. I will bring flowers home for her. It will also be 2 months without hugs. thanks again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Billw Posted December 12, 2010 Report Share Posted December 12, 2010 My wife loved fresh flowers and I have brought home literally thousands of them over the years. When she passed in April I had her cremated and her ashes are in a room where I sit in the mornings and meditate before work. There are a lot of her personal things, pictures of us and the boys in there. The room used to be her office and she spent a lot of time in there. I put fresh flowers in there every week for the first couple months but found it a little hard to keep up with after time so I went out and bought a Gardenia and planted it in a pot in the corner of the room by the window. Gardenias smell beautiful and were one of her favorites but can be a bit temperamental to grow . A lot of people told me that it wouldn't grow indoors very well but it is absolutely beautiful. When it was in bloom, you could smell it through the house. I have provided artificial light and humidity and it seems to like being in that room so far. I studied up on soil conditioning and proper care for these plants. Its been in there for 3-4 months now and I can't wait until it blooms again. There is an Arabian Jasmine outside the window that I planted right after she died (another of her favorites) I sprinkled a little of her ashes in when I planted it. It sits on the front patio and greets me every day as I come and go, they also smell beautiful. I told some people about it and the teased me about catering to these plants like I have but they really are beautiful and are great reminders of my girl. I am sure she approves......BW Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Queeniemary Posted December 12, 2010 Report Share Posted December 12, 2010 Fresh Flowers and plants are so lovely. Bill, loved hearing about the Gardinia. When my husband died, one of the plants sent to the service was a gardinia. You have to understand that Mike was the Green thumb in our marriage, mine is really brown. A couple of months after the service, I realized I had let the Gardinia die. The only thing I have managed to keep alive is a Peace Lily plant.....those things are so hardy...leaves can be drooping way over, and a big drink will perk them back up. You have inspired me Bill, I am going to get another Gardinia plant, and make that my project....to keep it alive. My kids all laugh if I ever get a plant, they feel so sorry for the poor thing, knowing that it will probably end up dead. I am going to get a Gardinia, and do it for Michael! Thank you Bill for the inspiration. Mary (Queeniemary) in Arkansas Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Billw Posted December 12, 2010 Report Share Posted December 12, 2010 Lots of light, humidity, and acidic soil. You'll be just fine. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Queeniemary Posted December 12, 2010 Report Share Posted December 12, 2010 Thanks Bill, it may be spring before I can get one. I wanted to send one the other day to a friend's Mother's funeral, and was told they don't carry them this time of year. She also said they are hard to care for. However, as soon as I can find one, that is my next project, they are so beautiful. Mary (Queeniemary) in Arkansas Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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