Mrcelloboy Posted November 21, 2007 Report Share Posted November 21, 2007 It's beautiful and sunny in California; I imagine same in AZ as well.I'm finishing a book called "The Time Traveler's Wife" and have reflected lately on how I often feel like a time traveler in my grief.I'll be celebrating tomorrow with my son Quinten, my lady-love Melanie, and her son Evan. We plan to light a candle for Kathy. I have one I'd gotten when she was still living that spells out "GO GIRL" each letter a different color. She went allright.Thinkgs have been good lately. I've been dealing well and Melanie and I seem to be doing OK with my sadness which still wells up at some point almost daily. I'm learning to praise some of the loving things that go on for Mel and I, not just reflect on how wonderful Kathy was. Melanie is so very understanding, but sometimes I realize too late that something I said hurt her. It can be a little bit of a dance at times, but I believe we'll make it; that I'll come out learning to love Melanie at a level I love/loved Kathy.How's it going for others this Thanksgiving?Maury Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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