JeanneC Posted March 26, 2009 Report Share Posted March 26, 2009 Hi Everyone:Today is Alex's birthday. He would have been 55. This is the first birthday that I am spending without him. I sent him happy birthday wishes and hope that he is enjoying himself with my father and mother and his father and mother. Pretty soon in June, it will be my one year anniversary without him. Love and God BlessJeanne Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
leeann Posted March 26, 2009 Report Share Posted March 26, 2009 (((((((Jeanne)))))))) I'm thinking of you.leeann Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MartyT Posted March 26, 2009 Report Share Posted March 26, 2009 And so am I Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WendyJ Posted March 26, 2009 Report Share Posted March 26, 2009 Jeanne just wanted you to know I am thinking of you today as I know today will be a difficult one for you. Maybe you can go light a candle for him here through the group, I enjoy doing that on special days. My thoughts and prayers will be with you all day today....Love Always,Wendy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mlg Posted March 26, 2009 Report Share Posted March 26, 2009 Jeanne, I too will be thinking of you today. It's so hard to know what to do. You just want to give them something and can't, so I just cried. I did make it through it though and I know you will too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marsha Posted March 26, 2009 Report Share Posted March 26, 2009 Jeanne - wishing you happy memories of Alex today. I know it's so emotional for you. I'm thinking of you today as well - Love, Marsha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WaltC Posted March 26, 2009 Report Share Posted March 26, 2009 Jeanne C. - I lit a candle for Alex today. May God Bless You and give you comfort today and everyday. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JeanneC Posted March 26, 2009 Author Report Share Posted March 26, 2009 I just want to thank everyone from the bottom of my heart. You are all so wonderful. I am really busy at work, so I don't have to think about it too much. Again, thank you all very muchLove and God BlessJeanne Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kayc Posted March 26, 2009 Report Share Posted March 26, 2009 Jeannie,Praying you get through this day...there will never be a birthday, or anniversary or death day that we don't think of them...continuously. Our hearts are with you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LarrysGirl Posted March 26, 2009 Report Share Posted March 26, 2009 Jeanne, thinking of you on Alex's birthday. This is not easy and we all care and send support to you today. Deborah Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boo Mayhew Posted March 30, 2009 Report Share Posted March 30, 2009 Jeanne, wishing you empathy and strength across the Atlantic Ocean. The 16th of March was Cliff's 53rd Birthday and I had my first counselling session and told Cliff (speak to him all the time!) that my present to him this year was my promise to do my best to make him proud of me. In the evening two of his friends came round for a few drinks so that I had company. One of them said, "who is that drink for" (it was on the side in the kitchen) and I said, "oh, that's Cliff's". What I am trying to say is do what you want in the evening after the busyness of the day is gone. If you are strong and raise a glass to him, or light a candle or do whatever it is you want to do, you may not feel so strong the following day, that's when it really punched me in the gut! But that's ok too isn't it?Our loves were all too young, and it feels so grossly unfair, but I have a strong belief that we will be together again when it is our time, and they will be waiting for us to fly into their strong arms. Hope you are ok and get through the day alright. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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