jrm Posted October 5, 2009 Report Share Posted October 5, 2009 Well tomorrow is our 41st anniversary. Duke has been gone 3 months this week. Thanks to this forum I have planned for tomorrow. I shoppped today for the flowers I know he would bring me and have bought flowers for him and tomorrow a.m. I will make up the bouquet and lay them on his grave. Our card is bought and sitting on the table with the flowers and a picture of us. I will wake tomorrow to see all on the table, starting my day off with the many memories we have made together. I have the candle ready to light in the evening. Please all wish us a happy anniversary. I'm going to try to send a pic I took. Thanks. Jrm Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MartyT Posted October 5, 2009 Report Share Posted October 5, 2009 Beautifully done, Jrm, and you and Duke have all our love and blessings on your anniversary day. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pier472000 Posted October 5, 2009 Report Share Posted October 5, 2009 You are very courageous and I will keep you in my thoughts as you celebrate memories on your 41st anniversary tomorrow. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Korina Posted October 5, 2009 Report Share Posted October 5, 2009 It sounds beautiful. I am sure Duke will send you strength. Korina Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mlg Posted October 5, 2009 Report Share Posted October 5, 2009 I hope you find strength in your little ritual. From what I can see the "scene" is beautiful. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeeGee Posted October 5, 2009 Report Share Posted October 5, 2009 jrm, Wow! 41 years! Congratulations - that is a long, long time to be a couple! I wish you joy and peace of mind as you light your candle this evening. DeeGee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kavish Posted October 5, 2009 Report Share Posted October 5, 2009 Thank you Jrm for sharing the beautiful picture. I should do the same for Dabby's birthday at month's end. Kavish Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boo Mayhew Posted October 5, 2009 Report Share Posted October 5, 2009 Well done for planning. The flowers, photo and card are beautiful. Duke will be close to you tomorrow, it's just that you can't see him. These anniversaries are very tough, and I send you my love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fredzgirl Posted October 5, 2009 Report Share Posted October 5, 2009 May Duke's love surround you and give you strength on the anniversary of your marriage. Fredzgirl Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carrieboo Posted October 6, 2009 Report Share Posted October 6, 2009 What a wonderful idea, very nice! We're thinking of you today! xo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jrm Posted October 16, 2009 Author Report Share Posted October 16, 2009 Thank you all for your support and warm wishes for last week's anniversary and birthday celebrations. Though it was hard and at times I thought "this was a stupid plan, this didn't change anything" it did for without THE PLAN the two days would have been uneventful. I can't believe another week has gone by since then. I'm moving around better physically and I am actually flying to Florida for 10 days to my sister's next week. I thank this site for giving me the courage to move forward. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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