melina Posted September 28, 2010 Report Share Posted September 28, 2010 I just had to relate the dream I had last night. I've been waiting for one. It's been 7 weeks since I lost my husband. Last night I had a strange dream where it turned out he hadn't died after all. The doctors had been able to bring him back, but only temporarily. We knew he was going to die, so I decided to make the most of the time we had left. He looked fantastic, young and handsome - just as he did 30 years ago when we first met. I made these foods he liked - homemade bread, fresh coffee etc, but he said he didn't need to eat. I told him (as I must have said a hundred times over the past year) "you've got to eat", but he said no. I told him to take his meds, but he said he didn't need them. So I gave him a massage, and my our kids came by to talk while I was massaging him. Then at the end, he sat up, leaned over to me, and I put my arms around him. When I woke up I still felt him there. But I realized then that it was just my arms crossed against my chest. I was both pleased with the dream and bitterly disappointed that it wasn't real. I have tears in my eyes just thinking about it. Melina Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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