karebare725 Posted October 21, 2010 Report Share Posted October 21, 2010 Hi, I am new here. My 33yr old husband passed away 5 days ago. It was unexpected. He had an injury 2 weeks ago but was on the mend, and recovering. And then BAM his heart stopped. I am so heartbroken. We have a 2yr old daughter, and were trying for more. I feel angry and upset, and almost disbelief. Deep down I know he wont come back, but I still find that hard to believe. We had our whole lives ahead of us. My daughter is almost 3. Ive been honest with her and told her he wont come back because he died, he is in heaven with God. She says okay, and found him a star in the sky. But she hasnt asked to see him or anything. Is that normal? Ive accepted that he's gone. But I am afraid to be alone. I cant even sleep in our room. Ive tried but it feels so empty and the warmth and love is gone from the room. I have so much guilt like I should have done more. And I want to talk with him and make sure he isn't angry with me for not doing enough. I am looking for support groups with similar situations, but havent found any. Also having trouble with final arrangements. I just want to honor him. We never had this discussion. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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