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  • Birthday October 7

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  • Your relationship to the individual who died
    spouse
  • Date of Death
    June 19, 2005
  • Name/Location of Hospice if they were involved:
    Eugene OR

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    Female
  • Location (city, state)
    Oakridge Oregon
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    I've led grief groups and am active on another site as well. I volunteer in my church (Deaconess & Praise Team) I help with two diabetic sites and my passion is helping people with grief and diabetes and researching/learning about both. I love walking my dog and spending time with him! I am a retired Office Mgr./Bkpr.

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  1. Gin

    Thanks for your encouragement.  I did talk to two docs.  One told me that I took such good care of him that I probably gave him extra time.  It still didn't help.  I always think I could have done more.  I think his decline was gradual and I did not notice it day to day.  Family told me that they never thought he would not  last for the last year or two.

    1. kayc

      kayc

      I think if you read through the threads here you'll find you are not alone in your feelings.  Feeling guilt, whether deserved or not, seems to be a common grief response.  It's important you also acknowledge everything you did do for him and keep it in perspective.  Marty has some great links on guilt on this site.

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