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  • Birthday October 7

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  • Your relationship to the individual who died
    spouse
  • Date of Death
    June 19, 2005
  • Name/Location of Hospice if they were involved:
    Eugene OR

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  • Your gender
    Female
  • Location (city, state)
    Oakridge Oregon
  • Interests
    I've led grief groups and am active on another site as well. I volunteer in my church (Deaconess & Praise Team) I help with two diabetic sites and my passion is helping people with grief and diabetes and researching/learning about both. I love walking my dog and spending time with him! I am a retired Office Mgr./Bkpr.

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  1. Anearia

    Hi Kay. I am so sorry to have offended you. it was certainly not my intention, I do think you misunderstood what I was trying to say. I was by no means undermineing anyones grief. on the contrary-what I was trying to get at with the whole ''moving on'' thing all the time from outsiders was that it is subconciously important to them, to feel that we are moving on as their own minds and situation cannot comprehend what we are going through. [in whatever terms that means to the individual-whether in grief or consoling someone grieveing]. 

    anyway. I am sorry. I wont bother you guys again.

    sincerest apologies

    Anearia

    1. kayc

      kayc

      I am not at all offended, I'm sorry you thought that.  Just the words "move on" is enough to strike a chord with me because my George and I were the love of each other's life, we were so close, we didn't ask to be separated through death and you DO hear people say "You need to move on", as if!  I will never choose to move on from any of his love or leave him behind or forget him in any manner.  To me, the grief journey is about adjusting to our new reality and making our life something livable, that two fold purpose.  It's not about moving on from the one we love.

      You have not bothered any of us in the least and I certainly hope you don't disappear on us!

    2. Anearia

      Anearia

      Thanks KayC. Have a great week.

       

    3. kayc

      kayc

      You too!

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