R.Everit55 Posted July 28, 2016 Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 I miss you my sweet beautiful bride. There's a hole where you belong. But my love for you is boundless. That is all... ? 10 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Polly Posted July 28, 2016 Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 I feel the same way. I should be in bed. I hate going to bed. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Widowedbysuicide Posted July 28, 2016 Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 Your words are so wonderful to read. I hope your beautiful bride knows what you feel. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rdownes Posted July 28, 2016 Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 I feel your sadness and love it is so hard without them they took a piece of our hearts with them and it gets so hard your bride loved her groom. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kayc Posted July 28, 2016 Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 9 hours ago, Widowedbysuicide said: I hope your beautiful bride knows what you feel. Oh I think Mary knows! 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
R.Everit55 Posted July 28, 2016 Author Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 I found this pic of my Mary from eight years ago. It's bittersweet. 10 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gin Posted July 28, 2016 Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 Butch, One of my goals was to go thru all my albums. I took a LOT of pictures. The exercise was to show me all the good times we had. I just can not do it. it is so incredibly sad. I have some pics around, but I do not know when I will be able to look at all the trips we took and family gatherings. Thanks for sharing the pic of your Mary. Gin 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KATPILOT Posted July 28, 2016 Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 Oh Gin it is hard. Bittersweet is the perfect word Butch. But then! How can we better appreciate the beauty of the person we love so dearly? When we gaze at their face long enough to pass the sorrow, the joy starts to creep back in. You can't have the good memories without going through the dark side first and for a few brief minutes, we can smile at the picture. I've been practicing this for years now. An interesting thing I have noticed is that when I look at family picture of my parents, especially my dad who died soon after Kathy, I don't have a hard time with sorrow before the good memories flow. I'm not sure why that is. 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Margm Posted July 28, 2016 Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 Bittersweet is the word. Billy had a beard since the early 1970's. I look at his sweet babyface before that beard, but I loved the beard. I loved/love Billy. It is the same for us all. I look forward to the day that seeing their pictures will not be bittersweet, but will be what they were/are, beautiful memories. Sometimes the wound closes, but sometimes it is just ripped open again. Peace Butch. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kayc Posted July 28, 2016 Report Share Posted July 28, 2016 I can't do it either, Gin. Way too painful! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rdownes Posted July 29, 2016 Report Share Posted July 29, 2016 I always look at my picture of Kevin I have to do it, his picture is on his shrine it gives me comfort. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rdownes Posted July 29, 2016 Report Share Posted July 29, 2016 Very nice picture of your Mary 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WolfsKat Posted August 2, 2016 Report Share Posted August 2, 2016 Picture of Connor and I on our wedding day......would've been our 2 year anniversary this month. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kayc Posted August 2, 2016 Report Share Posted August 2, 2016 That's a beautiful picture! It shows the love you shared. It reminds me of George and my love...the moment we got married was one of the happiest moments of my life, the only thing that is close is when my kids were born. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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