Kavish

I hope the day went ok for you. It is always good to face our fears and overcome the anxiety. It is brave of you to face it. Best wishes, Take care, Kavish

Hi Teeek, Your poem is lovely and true because it is from the heart. Yes, If we can all learn to forgive but most important of all to forgive ourselves , I learned that from my best and loved. She would laugh when I would get cross and it would show me the way to just be myself which would allow me to see others in the same light. Thanks, Kavish

hi Kayc, Please know that you are a special person and you have the spirits with you. I hope you can stand above this. Keep positive. Regards, Kavish

I am sorry for your loss. I think that the funeral director as a person may understand but as a business may not as to how difficult it is for us to lose someone and for them to make a business out of someone's loss. Unfortunately we are living in a more and more rushed life and don't always have the time to be thoughtful or care enough. Please Take care, Kavish

All the best Walt. Wish you health and good spirit. To Jean, For Jean. Regards, Kavish

Hi once again, I would also like to add that I have to be impervious to distractions and focus on my time to be with my my best friend, Diana in spirit. I have to believe in my self and live my life as best as I can. It would hearten me and my relationship with my friend and ultimately with others because my friend will always come first. Regards, Kavish

Hi Dani and Niamh, I 'lost" my best friend Diana who was from Scotland, and came to Canada later on, too. I am now looking forward to finding her again. I am always going to be positive that she is here and everywhere. I believe they will live on forever. I read a book by Deepak Chopra " Life After Death" and believe with quite optimism that our loved ones are with us always. Try and smile and they will smile with us. If we feel down they will help us get through it also. all the best, Your friend, Kavish

I myself don't cry consciously. I let it happen if my heart will allow it. I live for the moment where I am peaceful and alone with the one who loved us. Best of regards, Kavish

I would never use a medium. I will keep trying till I am the medium myself. What comfort will it give you to know what the medium will say. Believe yourself that your loved ones are happy and try to be happy with them in spirit. Take care, Kavish

Hi LoneWolf, Your mom and dad loved you, that matters more than anyone else , as they don't matter at all. Keep up your courage and your love for your mom and dad. It shows the spirit inside you which would guide you to keep your loved ones always in your heart and they are always by your side. It is hard but that is our only choice to keep up our courage and embolden our spirits. Thanks for sharing your story with us. Sincerely, Kavish

Hi Daughter, It happens when we put others first. Sometimes it is a blessing when you do meet a person who we should respect because they respect and love us back. But I have figured out that it is better that we put our thoughts, our anticipations first so that we are not hurt later on. Don't be angry, be good to yourself first. Thanks, Kavish

Anger is just the part of our reasoning out the loss we feel. The loss at physical level takes us to the level where we haven't reached before and have to collect all our energy to rise above all the desperation. Keep up the spirit to be in a spiritual reunion of our loved ones, Regards, Kavish

I like your thoughts and it gives me hope to find my Dabby. I would like to be my own medium and find my way to her again. I know she is here and everywhere, in the breeze, in the stillness. Thank you, Kavish

Hi Cajie_Laurie, See Tommy in your own light as you did before. Let nothing else color your heart. You will feel him as you still do. This life we have is meant for our thoughts to be one with ourselves, with our loved ones who loved us unconditionally. Don't worry how others feel, feel your feelings first. Regards, Kavish

Thank you Marty T, For providing succor and friendship of the kin with your inspiration. Cheers, Kavish

Hi, Yup, You and so are we faced up against the brick wall and have to get through it with the might of our heart. We got to take the load of our heart and get strong and find our loved ones again. They are here and everywhere, so says Deepak Chopra in his book "Life After Death." I believe in it too, because I don't have anything else I believe in. The meaning of life is I think, that faith in God is our steadfast hope to see us through. Regards, Kavish

HI Daughter, Looks like you got no one to help you. Take a deep breath and have someone who you can trust , make you do things more slowly, by talking to you or being calm, which may not be easy right now, for anyone in your position. Yes, you are right , no one should say things which are not true, like about your pets. I hope you will know we are all here for you, and wish you all the best. sorry to know of the loss of your dad. Sincerely, Kavish

While it may be fear on their part, We can not be afraid to find our loved ones, once again. They are the ones who truly loved and love us and I strive to not to be afraid to go out in the woods and let all thoughts of others vanish till I am only left with the thoughts and spirit of my loved one. I believe my friend lives, and I will try and reach her for my sake alone. Thanks, Kavish

I know that who I am I would not change. I know that I would do what I can to keep my heart singing for ever with her name. Thanks to all for your messages. It makes the journey not so difficult knowing so many are travelling this path. Regards, Kavish

I know I do feel empty , if I may use that word, because I did not do all the things that I would have done now with my best friend, Dabby. I feel that I lost that opportunity. SO to make up for it , I have to find her again. It is a new journey with new directions to take and I will travel it to find her again. That is the only way I can cope with her going away. But I travel this journey with a belief that she is waiting for me and will travel along me , guiding me. Regards, Kavish

Hi Loulou, No, I don't believe in psychics. For me they are side kicks. The energy they are seeking is just random thoughts. For instance, my friend lost her cat and she wanted to know if the cat was safe. The psychic said that the cat did not want to be disturbed and she was now content at an elderly couple's . Well, after 5 weeks we found the cat wandering the streets, thank God for the bell on her collar that people alerted us to her whereabouts.It is our own energy we can temper to find our love. I believe in life after death. And I believe my best friend Diana is always going to live. Regards, Kavish

Hi Kyle, You had a wonderful mom. When I think of my loved one, I try and always do my best, knowing she would be proud of me and love me still the same as it was when she was here. I believe in life after death, and I do get sad and depressed but working hard makes up for it eventually. Take care, Kavish

I am glad that you keep your parents in your heart and they will heal it as they guide you silently and peacefully. You can only grow to encompass and encourage others to adapt. Take care, Kavish

THanks. I believe too that their spirit is guiding us silently and peacefully. Regards, Kavish

Hi Fateful, Have faith in God and that he knows best. There is no right or wrong. Keep your faith and fate. SO many people die who should not die, we don't know the answers , but we must not lose our faith.Please believe that none of this is your wish. Regards, Kavish