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Congrats to Bentley. Isn't it wonderful that he was just 4 months old and he came to understand so many of us. He will be great with the Vets. Animals teach us not to be afraid. Keep it up Bentley, Cheers, Kavish

I like the new colors! Blue and purple. Coincides with my windows outlook. Thanks, Kavish

Hi Marcia, I am glad for you that you have a loving family and a husband who supports you. You are going to get through with your positiveness that the pain will dull and your heart will fill up again with love and compassion. You are trying and your being here is one proof amongst others you do for your self and your family. Your mom or your dad would not want to see you buckle but buckle up. Have faith, Kavish

I am sorry for your loss that your best friend is not here. I lost mine 3 years ago. But I had been given the strength by her to never buckle down and drew on that faith that my best friend will remain my best friend always. Look up to the sky and keep your head high and you will hear her. You will find her in different ways when you open up your heart to let all the emotions fill in. Take care, Kavish

As my grandfather used to say after having 6 kids..."It was his duty towards my grand mom, that he had sex otherwise he would not have needed it." I always thought of sex as not a natural extension of my self, maybe I was self conscious. But now I strive to just feel the sensuality for my Dabby through the heart since my loved one lives in there. Kavish

dear Ann, I'm sorry for your loss. But I am not the one who would feel guilty about what has happened in between my loved one and me, because I know I am going to be making up to her forever. I am going to dedicate my life being more gentle with myself as she was with me. I want to grow everyday and look up to her and say "I will see you one day." As she would say to me, "Now, now , Don't pout now." I would forget what I was angry at and instead would be just happy to be there in the moment. I want to see her again, and will keep my faith that I want to be at my best when I do. Thanks, Kavish

Hi Dave, Your mom is looking out for you. Don't be scared. It takes different times for all of us to think of how to cope with this loss. You have a support network of your girlfriend, your grandma, use it and talk out your feelings as you did to us. Thanks. We all need each other's support to carry on and be strong. You will get there, where we can breathe a little easier...I promise. Thanks, Kavish

HI Random, Thanks for your post. Even I can see and learn from your dad since he was such a fighter. To be smiling and joking in the face of debilitation and despair shows the courage that we all can aspire to. I am sure that you will imbibe his spirit and courage to face every circumstance be it the last time you saw him or any other situation in life , studies or general with the same smiling spirit. Take care, Kavish

Hi, I'm sorry to know that someone like your mom who I can picture by your story to be a "real" nice human being is no more. I lost my freind but i know that I have her with me in spirit. You have a lot of responsibility that is going to take your attention but please do not spend your time thinking back. There will be lots of time to do that in the months ahead. At the moment breathe deep and know that you are going to be strong. Keep your heart calm and the way will come to you. Sometimes I wonder where will this journey take me? But I am surprised everyday with the blessings from above. Take care, Kavish

Hi meow269, In this world when we love someone we do not forget them ever. Your dad may not be still here with you but believe me he will always be there for you whenever you need him. My best friend who is not with me has always helped me spiritually to deal with this world. Thanks, Kavish

Hi , What I do is that I don't listen to others who bring me down. That is the only way to bring myself up. I don't want to be afraid of anybody. Those are all distractions. Listen to your wavelength and all other noise will be filtered out. Regards, Kavish

Hi Niamh, I wish everyone their own space. Public parks and property must be respected by the people. Rev up your strength so that no body can dishearten you. You know you are doing your best and most of all your dad is always going to be there with you. Have faith. Regards, Kavish

Hi Susan, I lost my best friend 3 years ago but I remember her by her smile and all the happy times (both ups and downs) we spent together. This tells me that I would like to imbibe her strength of character in me and have her in my heart always. It is easy once you let go of all the other feelings and relax your self. I don't know if I will see her again but I always think the more I do as she did the more positive and real the experience will be. Thanks, Kavish

Hi Daughter2010, I lost my best friend at about the same time. It is still fresh with me. But I do believe in life after death as the soul lives on. I live in the assurance that my friend loves me and I hope to live on that hope. Thanks, Kavish

Yes, I would like to thank everyone for their support through this forum which has helped me to keep strong in my heart. Merry Christmas, as we remember our God and Gods in spirit and heart. Thanks, Kavish

Hi Niamh, I know all your hopes of your dad are alive as the fresh air you breath because you have a big heart which encompasses all. Give your heart the largess to see as your dad saw the world and you will have him with you forever. I remember my best friend by remembering all the things we did together and I try and prepare the same way I did for Christmas as she did. She shared her love and gave hope with which I hope forever. All the best, kavish

I don't have any voice mail or video but do have my best friend's pictures. All I need is to keep her alive in my heart and listen. It is more peaceful. I would not hold on to a voice mail but try to keep them and ourselves alive in our heart. Regards, Kavish

I am sorry for the loss of your husband last year. I lost my best friend sometime ago but still I feel she is there with me. I feel we have to have faith in ourselves and allow ourselves to grieve and remain strong through this period. I am sorry about the trouble you are having facing new challenges but you will surpass them over time. Regards, Kavish

Hi Pmpupdamike Yes, I am guilty of not being "active" sometimes holding back wondering if my response may hurt instead of helping others. But I do come to hov every day to find solace that this is the site which started my journey to keep my best friend Dabby "active" every day. We are all here. Kavish

Dear Shelley, We all have to believe we can make it on our own. I know you are going through so much adversity but there is always God. He knows everything. He will make a way out. I think the world is straining under a lot of economic and political pressures. Take care, Kavish

Hi Spika, Your dad seemed like a real dad who took care of you, and everybody else. God bless him. Now you have to look at the positive things alone and not let distractions derail your outlook on life ahead. Keep your head high and be proud you had a dad whose lead you can follow otherwise you would only be wallowing in self pity which is a distraction ( and nothing wrong with it) But it keeps us from being strong like your dad whom you loved and respected with your heart. All the best, Kavish

HI Raindrop, Your writing is very clear and easy to understand. I am sure you are just like the way you write. Please do not feel disheartened if others ignore you since they may be ignoring some of life's moments to learn from others and are unaware of the same. Please find solace that you are here on this forum where you will find people who understand and will listen. Keep up your spirits and you will see yourself through this difficult time. Regards, Kavish

HI Drock, It is always the right time to do something you would have done earlier. Your love can never go waste , and it is going to keep you strong and positive and always believing. Your mom is your inspiration and you can believe that she is always going to be with you. Cheers, Kavish

HI Simi, We all miss our loved ones. But it is our chance to show that we will always have the courage to believe in them. They are always with us. Take care, Kavish

It would have been nice to know someone like your grandma. Thank you, Kavish