Kavish

Dear Gold sunshine, He seems to be a rather loving person.I guess his feelings are mutual. My best wishes to you, Sincerely, kavish

HI , I am sorry for your loss of your mom. I just would like to say that if one fills the heart with love the heart will grow to dissolve the pain. We can do it. Your 2 little lovely daughters would help you with taking care of your pain. When my best friend died I learned from her that inspite of all the hurdles she always was kind and loving. Cheers, Kavish

I am with you when I remember my friend, every time I say I am sorry asking for you to help me when you should be resting. But I think I have to just look inside my self I will find her in my heart. She keeps reminding me to look inside my heart. Thanks, Kavish

Your mentoring has meant so much to us on this trip, You have taken us as if by hand to be braver as we move along. Thank you, Kavish

We do remember them and support them as they have supported us through their life time. Thanks, Kavish

Niamh, As usual your messages are so near to all of us. I would just consider tomorrow to be celebrated as you would usually do, with a song in your heart for your dad. He knows you are there for him as he is there for you. You will persevere and live to see him one day. I feel that our loved ones will always be there for us. All the best, Kavish

I am very glad you are strong and doing right by Rick. It is a sign that you love him as much as you do. I am glad you kept the traditions alive and not shied away from them. Thanks for your honesty, It helps to read so many messages from all, Kavish

Hi, For me all my relationships took a back seat after my friend died. I know it is not the same as family but for me my friend was my biggest supporter and never told me to do something different which I did not want to or critiqued me ever even if I did not do anything. She always forgave me. I feel her stronger than ever since i do not revel in the present or dwell on the past but look towards the future... I know I may not have helped you here, but just wanted to add how I feel. Take care, Kavish

Dear Sodcdancer, Jamel will not hold those words against you. He knew you did not mean that and he will always look over you from above. You can go on and do things that would make Jamel proud of who you are. A good person at heart. Do it for yourself and I am sure Jamel will be happy you are strong and he will say that's my elder sister who loves me with all her heart." Take care, Kavish

Niamh, As we move on with our journey , I realise that we can only do what we have learned up till now from our dear ones, and now all the learning is left upto us. I know your daddy and my best friend and for all, they are urging us to not lose heart but be brave at heart. It is up-to us now to prove that their love for us will make us conquer all steeps and levels. Do your best, leave the rest up-to God. Regards,

Hi Niamh, I don't think we can ask for them to be here on this earth with us. I think of my best friend, and I think how happy I would be when I see her again in the sky , not on the earth. I do not attach myself to things , and work on spiritual bonding with my best friend, and I read the book "Life after Death" by Deepak Chopra which said, life was always a disappearing act, we must not fear death just because we can't see. We believe in our faith and we will be united in the heart . They are here and everywhere. Take a deep breath, Take care, Kavish

Rim She just lost her best friend in her mom. She wants to be sure you are her best friend, by making you go through this tricky situation. She does not want to lose out on her family in case she is not sure that you will be there for her. You have to make her believe you will always be her best friend from now on. Sorry, I am not very good at words, but you understand what I am saying. ALl the best to you and I know you will succeed, Take care, Kavish

I know when I made mistakes my best friend would ignore them and move on. Now I have to learn from my experiences and be better for them myself with the help of the best friend who is always there for us. Kavish

Hi everyone, I do used to look back, but I look at what I am doing now, and whatever i am doing now I feel my best friend, is helping me to be myself and not to see what i lacked, because she never saw in me what I lacked although others would not see me likewise. I was who I was in her eyes, and she never saw me differently ever. I dedicate my self to being what I am and work towards it to feel who I am. Thanks, Kavish

Thank you Frank, The poem gives me peace that my friend is in my heart. And I have to strive and be stronger in my heart to be there with her, exclusive of all life's distractions. Regards, Kavish

I also know that they will always be there for us and know we did our best. They will forgive us. I feel stronger in my heart about my best friend, than ever before and love her just the same, maybe even more. Kavish

Sorry for both your losses, loulou and niamh, I just feel that we have them in our hearts and that's where they will be. The circumstances that led to thier demise are worldly and the world can not be expected to be sensible. We can keep our loved ones in our heart and carry on. Thanks, Kavish

Your mom, my loved one, they are all there for us. I just have to close my eyes, take out all the distractions and hope to be with them. Regards, Kavish

HI Bflyr, My best friend passed away last year. But she loved me so much and always was there for me , that i feel I am who I am because of her. I believe I am going to find her again, and she is here and everywhere. I read the book " Life after Death", and i found that in our heart we have the way to reach our loved ones as souls they always are. You too will find in side your heart the way to move forward to wards your loved ones in soul. Thanks, Kavish

I am sorry that you don't get the support from supposedly sources. It is now up to you to stand up for yourself and take control. You will grieve all you want and you don't care if anybody else commiserates. It is your loss and you will deal with it. You can do it. Take care, Kavish

Hi Justme2905, I am sorry you are dealing with this loss of your father. I am sure you want to be there for your mom as well. But it does not mean you can overlook you own grief. Please give your self time to take care of your own self and your love will again allow you to look after them. I am sure your dad is here with you and everywhere. Sincerely, Kavish

I am glad your mom had someone who remembers her and she is here and everywhere with you. I am glad your heart is full with love for her , and I won't waste my time thinking of what others are doing, but keep yourself comfortable that you loved your mom. She will always be here with you. Thank you, Kavish

Hi hikedenali, It would be great if you could write what you feel and true to your emotions. It would help me talk more about my own feelings which you have already done here with us. So why not with your colleagues. I am sure they will understand. Good luck, Kavish

Hi Melissa, I am sorry that you and your mom were not told that your aunt would be "helping out" with the ashes of your dad. All I would say is let the things take their course and you don't have to do otherwise. If you are sad be sad and we will all be with you. You can not hide the sorrow and the loneliness by being boisterous or avoiding what's real. Be yourself and you will be taken care of by God in his own way. Thanks, Kavish

Dear Lee and Greta, I just think that our loved ones gave us so much love that we will always have them in our heart. We can never ever forget thier generosity and want to continue thier work in us through our work here on this earth. Thank you for writing, Kavish