KATPILOT Posted November 19, 2016 Report Share Posted November 19, 2016 The first of this kind is hard I know but it's still your anniversary Patty and some things never end. Hang in there as you work so hard to keep Maui Pasta, the dream of two wonderful people, alive. 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MartyT Posted November 19, 2016 Report Share Posted November 19, 2016 I am holding you close on this special day of remembrance, dear Patty, and sending thoughts of peace and healing to your broken heart ♥ 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KarenK Posted November 19, 2016 Report Share Posted November 19, 2016 Wishing you peace also on this special day. It is all we can ask for. Today would have been our 44th anniversary. So many years, yet so little time. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gin Posted November 19, 2016 Report Share Posted November 19, 2016 Karen, Wishing you peace on this your 44th anniversary. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Patty65 Posted November 19, 2016 Report Share Posted November 19, 2016 Thank you... and ((((Karen)))) peace to you too on your anniversary day that we share. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gwenivere Posted November 19, 2016 Report Share Posted November 19, 2016 Thinking of you, Karen and your loses. Time forges on ahead forever, but ours and our loved ones so limited. I can't believe sometimes I met Steve almost 40 years ago but I know it is true and explains why I feel I am literally dying inside from loneliness. Talk of reasons to 'go on' are lost on me. Inexperienced people to this tell me they 'care and love' me. They don't get when the most important part of that foundation crumbles it is of little solace, especially when they keep reminding us like it will somehow fill that void. We appreciate it, but I don't think we will ever regain solid footing. Yet, they tryband fix us. its weird to even say happy anniversary. It's happy with them, a day of reminder of loss now without them. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MartyT Posted November 19, 2016 Report Share Posted November 19, 2016 Thoughts, prayers and wishes for peace and healing are with you today, too, dear Karen . . . ♥ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KarenK Posted November 19, 2016 Report Share Posted November 19, 2016 Thank you all. I suppose it becomes a little easier to bear each year. At times, I am resigned to the loneliness and at others, like you Gwen, I die a little more each day which sounds silly because we all die a little more each day. On days like today, I think of all the good times and all the bad ones. Somehow our love withstood the sands of time until his hourglass was empty. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KATPILOT Posted November 19, 2016 Author Report Share Posted November 19, 2016 Karen I hope your night is a peaceful one. I forgot to mention that I am going to the Light Up A Life event tomorrow if you want to go but need a ride. I'd be glad to take you. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
enna Posted November 20, 2016 Report Share Posted November 20, 2016 Holding you in my thoughts Patty on this your anniversary. And Karen, special hugs to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rdownes Posted November 20, 2016 Report Share Posted November 20, 2016 Patty and Karen I am sorry I missed you anniversaries, I hope you both were able to find some sense of comfort in remembering the love you both shared life is so hard now without them, but one day we will be reunited and then it truly will be forever hugs 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kayc Posted November 20, 2016 Report Share Posted November 20, 2016 Patty and Karen, I, too, am sorry I didn't respond sooner, I didn't know it was your anniversaries until it was over...the trouble with coming on here so soon in the day. I hope you got through it without too much pain, but then I know how that goes. I hang in there until the day George and I can be together again, I hope that's a thought you can hold onto too. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KATPILOT Posted November 20, 2016 Author Report Share Posted November 20, 2016 Kay I miss a lot of days that are important to so many of us here mostly because at this time of year I am often not on for days at a time and events like anniversaries pop up on the day they happen. I tried to keep a list of important dates but I'm overlooking the list too. But we all know how we feel about each other so we don't take it to heart. Some of us don't even post about a day of importance to us because it is too private or painful to even bring it up. My heart goes out to you people too. The holidays are coming and with it a lot of anguish and sorrow hit most of us. Those who have an anniversary or birthday or a heaven day feel especially vulnerable. With the love and compassion for each other I know we will get through it. I'm glad we have this place to come when we're sad. Tonight when I go to the "Light Up A Life" event in Phoenix I will see some friends and feel that familiar gut reaction when Kathy's picture comes up as I always do but I will honor her by being there. There is something so magical about the thousands of people there wearing the blue light around their necks in the dark. So many people sharing a loss in one place is a power I can't explain but it marks the beginning of the holiday season and we all do what we have to do to survive our loss. Even if it means crying in public. To all my friends, peace to you as we head into the season...sad but never alone. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marie Lee Posted November 29, 2016 Report Share Posted November 29, 2016 On November 20, 2016 at 0:15 PM, KATPILOT said: Kay I miss a lot of days that are important to so many of us here mostly because at this time of year I am often not on for days at a time and events like anniversaries pop up on the day they happen. I tried to keep a list of important dates but I'm overlooking the list too. But we all know how we feel about each other so we don't take it to heart. Some of us don't even post about a day of importance to us because it is too private or painful to even bring it up. My heart goes out to you people too. The holidays are coming and with it a lot of anguish and sorrow hit most of us. Those who have an anniversary or birthday or a heaven day feel especially vulnerable. With the love and compassion for each other I know we will get through it. I'm glad we have this place to come when we're sad. Tonight when I go to the "Light Up A Life" event in Phoenix I will see some friends and feel that familiar gut reaction when Kathy's picture comes up as I always do but I will honor her by being there. There is something so magical about the thousands of people there wearing the blue light around their necks in the dark. So many people sharing a loss in one place is a power I can't explain but it marks the beginning of the holiday season and we all do what we have to do to survive our loss. Even if it means crying in public. To all my friends, peace to you as we head into the season...sad but never alone. Kat, thanks...you said it ..peace..love the light up a life description... Marie 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marie Lee Posted November 29, 2016 Report Share Posted November 29, 2016 Happy memories of anniversaries , etc, to all... With love, Marie 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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